14 Years

Fact: I find Spanish men very attractive. As a whole, they are well-dressed, courteous, attentive, and affectionate. They are loyal to family, love children, and have a natural swagger. On more than one occasion, I’ve blushed, or stammered, or simply stared in awe at Manolo, Antonio, Jose, Pedro, or Julio. (And I’m not talking about … More 14 Years

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Last Friday, we went to feria with some Spanish friends. It was the normal cacophony of music and humanity, a blur of polka-dots and glowing lights. An exuberant, beautiful mess. As the evening blurred on, I felt the familiar heaviness behind my eyes. I glanced at my phone, and realized with a shock that it … More Time In